Extreme sensitivity during ...?

It probably goes back to you being a stripper. It is not unusual. Hooker, not to say you were one, do not kiss their clients, it is too personal. It very well may be a latent feeling going back to stripping. Many strippers who I have had lap dances from don't mind rubbing any part of themselves all over me, I live in an area where it is legal, but if you try anything sensual, like kissing their neck, they freak. is impersonal, but kissing and sensuality are very personal. Find a good councilor.